Yes yes yes. As a nanny I see this ALL the time. The man stepping back so the woman can do the job he considers himself incapable of. I think it's a self-esteem problem, too, but either way, it needs to stop.

Stacy Selby is currently writing a book about their experiences as a hotshot. They live in Seattle.

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